Saturday, December 29, 2012

BEING A WOMEN IN INDIA

On december 16th, a 23 years old medical student got gang raped in Delhi.

Yesterday, on December 28th, she died from her injuries.
Today, 6 men got charged with murder.

This attack has triggered mass demonstrations in Delhi that have, to this day, not calmed down. And with the news of her death, will probably worsened.

See, like the tragic suicide of the young vegetable seller in Tunis triggered the now well know, Arab Spring, a terrible drama sometimes resonates within an entire country. Why these particular tragic incidents are the spark of true deep social movements and not others, i really don't know… maybe they are "la goutte d'eau qui fait d├ęborber le vase".

This is what occurred that tragic night: the young lady was coming back from a 9pm movie with a friend. She then boarded a bus when she was attacked by six men. She was then severely beaten with iron rods, and raped by all of them.
They then proceeded to throw her on the street where she was found then rushed to New Delhi's Safdarjang Hospital.

The bus, which was empty except for the attackers, drove through the city for hours during the assault, even passing through police checkpoints.

Not only did this case of indescribable violence toward women start a public debate on sexual violence toward women in India, but it put into light another problem India faces: the abuse and carelessness of the Police when it comes to women issues.

On top of this happening on a public bus driving through the city for hours, but the police never did the minimum work as to trying to prosecute the rapists.

It seems rape is not seen as such a big deal in India and often the few brave girls that will try to report it will be laugh at or even threatened.

"A series of rapes in rural areas in the state of Haryana, adjacent to Delhi, earlier this year provoked suggestions from politicians and community leaders that much sexual violence was consensual and that the age of marriage should be lowered. Women who report rapes are repeatedly ignored or harassed themselves by police. The belief that women are responsible for sexual assault is widespread. "(TheGuardian UK)

"In one incident reported this week, police jeered and laughed when a 17-year-old in Patiala, in the north-western state of Punjab, attempted to report a gang rape. She later committed suicide. Two officers have now been sacked and one suspended." (The Guardian UK)

In a local newspaper, i had even seen a quote of one of the top police officers saying that if they were to condemn rapes, it would "demoralize" their troops!!!!! WTF.

Protests last weekend turned violent with police using water cannons, teargas and baton charges to disperse demonstrators close to parliament.

During a very impressive TV debate opposing the top Police Chief to 5 young Delhi women (4 on 5 were between 19 and 26years old) i was speechless in front of the carelessness and vague and insulting answers he was trying to feed the public. Like suggesting that a girl that walks around Delhi at 2 am, is putting herself in danger on her own will and if anything happened, it basically is her fault. Because the police can't be everywhere and really, a good girl should not go out and should be careful of how she dresses. But these girls where not having it. And he quickly realized he was going to loose the debate as he really had not true answer. Oh yeah, he never apologized ONCE for all that had happened.

In the wake of the most recent incident, dozens of other rapes, often by multiple assailants, have been reported by media across India. Many feature minors.
In recent years, rape and sexual assault have apparently been growing crimes in India. Women's organisations have been raising this issue for so long and no one seemed to be listening…until now.

Brinda Karat, (ex-member of parliament) said that the right response was not "patriarchal, patronising assurances that we will make you safe by [having you] stay in your own homes" but a concerted campaign to "ensure that women have equal rights in every public space, the workspace, cinemas, malls, the metro, buses, the street - everywhere".

May this poor girl's soul rest in peace and may India hear the voice of its women and make them safe.
























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Wednesday, December 26, 2012

2012 Favorites [The Sexy Edition]

Yes Ladies and Gents, it's that time of year when we still around and contemplate about the year that's past and dream about the year to come. As a blogger of course I constantly feel the need to externalize my thoughts so here's a few of my sexy favorites for 2012.

Fav Sex Reference Source















Who needs porn when you have tumblr sex gifs?! This has no doubt been my addiction this year. Anytime I need a little visual stimulation I just head to my favorite tumblr sex blogs and it's a go. The best thing is that I no longer have to hear the shitty story lines or weird moans that used to completely put me off of porn. I follow a bunch off blogs but my downright favorite is Always Aroused

Fav Sex Music
For me the best sex music has always been 80s/90s RnB so I've been listening to the same old tapes for decades now when I'm feeling sexy and it was well getting a little old. Thankfully an amazing producer from Montreal heard my prayers and made the sickest remixes of my favorite RnB classics. His name is Kaytranada



























If you haven't heard this remix yet you're in for an amazing ear-gasm!


Wednesday, December 19, 2012

DESSERT FOR BREAKFAST RADIO // EPISODE 1

IT HERE YALL!!!!!

This Radio show features The Dessert For Breakfast ladies and their opinions on sex.
We discuss a bunch of subjects around a nice bottle of wine.
From good sex to bad sex to condoms…..to lasers coming out of futuristic pussies.

Now get your sweet sexy ears ready, 'coz it's about to get real raw…

(Music: Jill Scott, Raheem DeVaughn, Meshell Ndegeocello, Gizmo and Monsieur Nov)


THE ART OF THES




Thes don't mind being a woman in a man's world. She's inspired by strong females that she likes to describe as mighty broads. Her work is provocative yet funny and sexy. If you wanna find out more about her, visit her blog.



Saturday, December 15, 2012

OLD KISSING LADIES

Fun historical fact, there used to be more gay and lesbian content in early silent films until religious groups protested resulting in “decency standards.” via LaciGreen


LOVE. HER.


Friday, December 14, 2012

TEASER 1


SILENT ONES

A man that comes in total silence… so silent you are not sure at all he actually came…you just know 'coz he told you he did and stopped doing you.
Really don't like that, creeps me out.

Thursday, December 13, 2012

THE MORON THAT ASKS QUESTIONS

"No, you are hot, i do like you! But.."
"So why are you not getting closer? What's wrong?"
"What's wrong? Well there is this thing about you that makes you really unattractive, something i'm not down with "
"??"
"YOUR GIRLFRIEND."


Tuesday, December 11, 2012

MORNING SEX


BEST COMMENT

This comment was just posted on one of our photo series:

Guy in striped shirt = an entire novel in my head.
-V. Llorca

BOOBIES SERIES










I THINK I'M BECOMING A WOMAN AGAIN

So i finally had sex with this insanely good looking man i met last year in Miami.
But even though the performance was good…like better than i actually expected it to be, i still didn't care for it at all…. he ate me really good, we even started in the shower and used the mirror as a guest but it was "blah".
It lacked the most important thing: a sexual connection, a sexual tension. It was so clear that we were gonna have sex that there was no game, no crazy tension, (you know the one that makes you wet just with a look or the touch of a finger on your neck), nothing.
Funny thing is he told me he was pretty happy with the whole thing, being completely ignorant of my lack of real interest. I guess the fact that i was doing him right, wet and actively participating was enough proof of my happiness. Men…
Somehow, i used to be able to fuck a man just based on his look. But it seems now, i need a bit more…like a conversation or real foreplay (the one that comes before fingering, licking my breast, and eating me out, the REAL foreplay starts hours before..).
I think i'm becoming a woman again.

DfB RADIO COMING SOOOOOOOOOOON

…like this week soon :)

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

RESTAURANT

If you do not pay for my supper, you are automatically placed in my "friends" zone. Forever.
The other way around is not a truth, but in this way, it is.
And there is no coming back from the friends zone. Unless you REALLY impress me. But usually, that's a date suicide.
(this is only my opinion, i know some friends if mine don't agree)

Sunday, December 2, 2012

69

I love 69s. I know some of my girls don't because it's hard to give AND recieve….but it it especially that part that at some point totally overwhelms me and turns me on because it's almost too much to handle… I love 69s...