Wednesday, June 15, 2016


I 100% agree.
I have a strong personality and tend to be socially dominant, especially with men. But when it comes to sex: you better take control. I am the boss but in bed, i want you to be the boss.

"We aren’t the women who merely get by in the world using our beauty as a method for achievement; on the contrary, we are women who get by with our brains.
We are whip-smart creatures who expel endless brainpower into everything we do.
We spend our days in a hyper-focused state, penetrating our impressive energy into our work. At the end of the day, we are completely, intellectually drained.
We want to be desired for our bodies, and that’s OK. We don’t want to THINK, we want to feel and get lost in our sexuality.
We are insatiable creatures who want you to be overcome with fiery passion and pent up desire for us.
Just because we’re smart as all hell and often thought of as intimidating doesn’t mean we’re not teeming with sexual hunger from every pore – begging with every fiber of our being for you to take over."
"Because we refuse to be ashamed of our fantasies
Having real girl power means we have confidence in what turns us on. Just because we’re turned on by our partners serving as the dominant energy during sex doesn’t make us any less of a feminist than the girl who gets her rocks off in spanking boys; that’s for damn sure.
Owning your personal fantasy and NOT allowing yourself to feel embarrassed or ashamed for it is what being sex-positive really means.
Because our creativity is connected to our sexuality
It’s come to my attention the general masses don’t quite understand the most powerful of women are also the most creative.
Creativity is the most powerful weapon in all of the land — it’s what moves the world forward; after all, everything in existence was an idea before it came into tangible fruition, right?
We can’t micro-manage or compartmentalize creativity — once we are tapped into that side of ourselves, it overflows into all parts of our lives, sex included.
As powerful, creative women, we have an unstoppable ambition in venturing into unchartered territories.
Experimenting with power dynamics and feeling the rush of new sensations, now that’s sexy.
Because we are taking the power back
The sad truth is as much as society is taking mega strides toward improvement, even in the residence of this relatively safe first-world country, we as women have been made to feel vulnerable for merely existing.
Even the most powerful force of female nature isn’t exactly safe meandering the city streets in the darkness.
The world is chock-full of predators, and denying this unfortunate fact isn’t going to create change.
The sad part is, vulnerability shouldn’t be associated with helplessness because they’re two different things."

via this article yo.