Tuesday, September 2, 2014

PORN IS MY PORN.

Mnmkay, I have something to say about women and porn based on something that recently occurred. It always seems to come up sometime in life.
I'm talking about denial about liking sex and porn.

Just the other day, I was watching a video about romance and the most romantic scenes in movie history. A female who watched it with me said "This is porn for women."


I disagree, but thank you for speaking on behalf of our entire gender.

Even though we live in 2014, there seems to be this weird denial about liking different kinds of sex.
Don't get me wrong, those scenes were pretty I watched in the video were very sensual....but how much raunch do you hear women talk about openly? Not a ton. It's the same women who believe sex is on a hierarchical scale - emotional sex is top tier, whereas every other kind of sex is less worthy of our Ts and As. I agree that emotional sex can be highly rewarding, but so can non-emotional, animalistic sex.

With this sexy bundle package of thinking, you hear women say shit like "don't do casual sex, you'll get attached!" "isn't porn so demeaning?" "I can't have sex if I'm not in a relationship", which may lead to problems like dating someone that's not even right for you so you can have a regular partner.

Now, some of us ladies ARE built that way legitimately. That's ok....but I feel more do it out of fear of  the unknown, of sexuality, of being labeled. Many assume they are this type without testing the waters and working through it. It's too scary.

Additionally, we make women who DO like sex feel like something wrong with them. I'm one of THOSE women. I value sensual stuff, but I also love the idea of getting banged hard on the hood of a '67 Camaro. Sue me.


Here are the benefits to casual, hardcore nasty, wham bam thank you  fuckytimes:
- you learn to be more upfront about what you want
- you learn about your limits, your desires, your insecurities
- you can suck a dick during your lunch hour and still have enough time to grab a coffee on the way back in.
- you understand that you have needs and how important they are
-you get an opportunity to be who you actually are instead of what you think you should be.


I love sex. I love porn. I love pull your hair, slap your ass, ride-that-Twatlantic-Ocean -out-to-port-kinda sex. Why is that below us?

So, dear lady who loves thinks kissing is porn,

Some of us women are filthy perverts. Some of us excuse ourselves at a job to go masturbate in the washroom for 10 min. Some of us see porn as porn.

There isn't a hierarchical scale of sexual experiences and there never was. It's about enjoying being well-rounded and not using fear to make choices - but rather, doing what's right for you instead.

Now if you'll excuse me, I think I'll call someone and ask them to bang me on my coffee table.